Are Relationships social compulsions?

Aug 13 2009 9 PM I just came to home from office.I went to neighbors home.He suddenly started
to speak about relationships.He had updated his Orkut profile."From my past experiences ,Relationships are way of exploitation" .He thinks parents love children's because love on children has become Social habit.Relationships are bound by social compulsions , prestige ,blood relationships.There are less good positive factors involved.I would partially accept this.But he sees these from his eyes.It appears different to others.
His arguments
Assume if a couple dont care for their children's,they will look odd before other couples.Then there are other factors involved like personal feelings like Ego ,Jealousy,Social prestige which will compel them to care for their children .
Once you do a help to people they expect you to help every time they ask for help.Suddenly once you refuse help to them, they forget your kindness in previous occasions and you become a devil in their minds.


I suddenly thought of parents and their love while hearing this.They have always been my good friends for me.I have met so many people in my life who have shown some true affection.Love is best when it is unconditional.I have met less negative people.But there are some people who will act like really close persons.I can never guess their inner evil thoughts.I would realize their darker side only after some time. There is one person i hate a lot.Even in very critical situation this person can think in cool cunning way and cause trouble to others.At same time i should wonder this Emotional IQ in taking decisions in troubled situation.I would hate when logical decisions come without love and care for others.
I remember noted orator Valamburi John speaking about truth and lies in TV interview.He had said "In some issues both arguments may be true and false".There is no one fact in many issues."The way you see the problem ,Way it appears". Judgment is in your thoughts ,not in facts.

Swine Flu

I just heard Swine flu has its second victim in chennai.Second victim is from Adayar.First victim was a four year old boy .I weared masks for couple of days after hearing a four year old died of swine flu.My office is in velachery.For first three day i saw many people wearing masks in the location.But after somedays,people dont care much about swine.People seem to be care free after initial hype.It could be one reason Swine has strong hold on Asian countries.Dense population and careless mindset is dangerous combination for air borne diseases
One advantage for Chennai is very hot place.I hate this punishing heat and humidity .Swine doest spread quickly in hot places.But
Swine seems to be long term problem.Swine or H1N1 virus spreads through air droplets from infected person.TamiFlu drug is administrated for this disease but is ineffective during complicated stages