Are Relationships social compulsions?

Aug 13 2009 9 PM I just came to home from office.I went to neighbors home.He suddenly started
to speak about relationships.He had updated his Orkut profile."From my past experiences ,Relationships are way of exploitation" .He thinks parents love children's because love on children has become Social habit.Relationships are bound by social compulsions , prestige ,blood relationships.There are less good positive factors involved.I would partially accept this.But he sees these from his eyes.It appears different to others.
His arguments
Assume if a couple dont care for their children's,they will look odd before other couples.Then there are other factors involved like personal feelings like Ego ,Jealousy,Social prestige which will compel them to care for their children .
Once you do a help to people they expect you to help every time they ask for help.Suddenly once you refuse help to them, they forget your kindness in previous occasions and you become a devil in their minds.


I suddenly thought of parents and their love while hearing this.They have always been my good friends for me.I have met so many people in my life who have shown some true affection.Love is best when it is unconditional.I have met less negative people.But there are some people who will act like really close persons.I can never guess their inner evil thoughts.I would realize their darker side only after some time. There is one person i hate a lot.Even in very critical situation this person can think in cool cunning way and cause trouble to others.At same time i should wonder this Emotional IQ in taking decisions in troubled situation.I would hate when logical decisions come without love and care for others.
I remember noted orator Valamburi John speaking about truth and lies in TV interview.He had said "In some issues both arguments may be true and false".There is no one fact in many issues."The way you see the problem ,Way it appears". Judgment is in your thoughts ,not in facts.